В новой программе RTVI «Это не Фрейд» ведущий Андрей Самарцев (https://www.instagram.com/andreysamartsev/) и психолог Мария Эриль (https://www.instagram.com/maria_heril/) помогают людям лучше понять себя и окружающих. Разбираем наболевшие проблемы и психологические вызовы, с которыми ежедневно сталкиваются мужчины и женщины. В этом выпуске поговорили о насилии в семье. Почему многие до сих пор считают, что бьет — значит любит, как жертве насилия справиться с чувством стыда и почему нередко абьюз скрывается под маской заботы.

00:00 Приветствие
01:00 Про закон о декриминализации побоев
01:55 Когда бьет — значит не любит
03:24 Откуда берется обвинение жертв
07:42 Как справиться с чувством стыда
09:20 Про механизм обесценивания сложных ситуаций
10:19 Когда близкие не верят, что это произошло
12:13 Вопрос от зрительницы
14:45 Почему жертвы насилия не уходят после первого эпизода
19:45 Про психологическую зависимость
21:40 Про газлайтинг
22:49 О пассивной агрессии
27:00 Про абьюзеров и нарциссов
34:20 О мужчинах-жертвах
36:15 Как распознать абьюзера в начале отношений

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Максим Галкин – Большой сольный концерт — Москва — Государственный Кремлевский Дворец

Магия его таланта никого не оставляет равнодушным. Вот уже десятилетия он собирает полные залы по всей стране и за ее пределами.

Юморист. Телеведущий. Шоумен. Певец. Список его регалий и статусов можно перечислять бесконечно. Но прежде всего Максим Галкин – настоящий Артист с большой буквы. Яркий, харизматичный и всегда актуальный.

9 декабря в Московском Доме Книги на Новом Арбате прошла встреча с Андреем Курпатовым, известным врачом-психотерапевтом, создателем современной модели психотерапии, автором более 100 научных работ по психиатрии, психотерапии, психологии, философии и методологии, который представил свою новую книгу «Четвертая мировая война»

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Lauren Weinstein delivers an inspiring TEDxPaloAlto talk on how to break free from limiting beliefs.

Lauren Weinstein is a lecturer at the Stanford Graduate School of Business, teaching one of the most popular classes there—The Essentials of Strategic Communication. In addition to her work at the Business School, she has served as a guest lecturer and skills coach for Stanford Law School, the Stanford undergraduate program and the Stanford d.school.

In addition to her work at Stanford, Lauren is the founder of Resonate Coaching. As the principal at Resonate, Lauren works with clients ranging from TED speakers to start-up founders to high-level executives, helping them achieve more powerful public speaking and interpersonal communication skills.

Prior to her current work, Lauren served as a communication strategist for high level teams at Fortune 500 companies and worked with Santa Clara County in their mediation and communication skills training program.

Lauren received her J.D. from Stanford Law School and her B.A. in psychology from Stanford University. She’s also a certified leadership development coach through the Coaches Training Institute.

For more information about TEDxPaloAlto please visit www.tedxpaloalto.com.

This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

Stand-up comedy is just catching on in the State of Kerala. Vinay Menon is among the very few who pursue this genre. He is an IT professional- turned- comedian, and focuses mainly on observational humor. He is also a professor and in this talk he has a humorous take on the myths of the Indian Education System.

Stand-up comedy is just catching on in the State of Kerala. Vinay Menon is among the very few who pursue this genre. He is an IT professional- turned- comedian, and focuses mainly on observational humor. He is also a professor and in this talk he has a humorous take on the myths of the Indian Education System.

This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

Anne-France Dautheville is a French journalist and actress. She is known for her motorcycle road trips and for being the first woman to ride a motorcycle around the world. She recounted her travels in several books.
Anne-France Dautheville is a French journalist and actress. She is known for her motorcycle road trips and for being the first woman to ride a motorcycle around the world. She recounted her travels in several books. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

Мы живем в мире потребления, и не так-то просто бороться с этим. Ведь выбор – это благо, а возможность выбирать – залог свободы. Но как не потерять эту свободу, став рабом своих потребностей? И как сделать шаг от потребления к созиданию?

Тилек Токтогазиев — молодой предприниматель и бизнес-эдвайзер. Член правления Ассоциации социальных предпринимателей и основатель тепличного бизнеса «Жашыл чарба», в бизнес-сферу он попал в 19 лет, а в свои 24 уже является владельцем трех успешно работающих проектов.

This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

“We mustn’t speak to strangers.” Malavika Varadan, challenges this societal norm, by presenting 7 ways to make conversation with anyone.

RJ extraordinaire, Malavika Varadan, creates waves quite literally with her morning show, Breakfast No.1 on City 101.6. An avid fitness enthusiast, positivity ninja and drama queen, she has chiseled a benchmark in the radio industry. At TEDxBITSPilaniDubai she will choose to redefine connections.

This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

John Sumonu is an embodiment of courage. Toyin Oyemade, by using his life experience, points out lessons on how we can find the courage to chase our dreams.

Toyin Oyemade is the creative, passionate, fearless and driven founder of StoryTeller Media. She is a content developer, producer and filmmaker. Her 2nd film “UNBROKEN; The John Sumonu Story”, produced in 2104 was nominated for best documentary at the ‘Abuja International Film Festival’, 2014.

This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

When you tell people that the Coxless Crew set 2 World Records rowing from America to Australia, the first question is not about the journey, but is usually how on earth, as a team of women on a small 29ft boat, did you not throw each other over-board?!

If youre part of a team, whether thats a sporting context or in the corporate world, team effectiveness is what we all strive for, so listen to this talk for some take home messages which may help improve collaboration within your own team.

Laura Penhaul is the Paralympic Lead Physiotherapist for British Athletics and Coxless Crew Team Lead who set 2 World Records in being the first all female crew, to row from mainland America to mainland Australia